June 20, 2025

Ep 274: I've Seen What I Needed To See (a birthday episode!)

June 20, 2025/ Laura Tremaine

It's my birthday week! Which means it's my annual birthday episode.

This year I'm sharing the phrase that keeps running through my mind and the many ways I'm applying it to my past and my present.

(Plus there's a special announcement at the end of this one. Don't miss it.)

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MENTIONED in this episode:

Ep 265: How Have You Changed in the Last 10 Years? (with Meg Tietz)

Ep 259: 10 Questions for the Anniversary of a Big Event

Ep 253: Regrets and Reflections from 15 Years Working on the Internet

Ep 225: Change Happens When You're Looking the Other Way (a birthday episode!)

Ep 180: 4 Metaphors for Turning 44

Ep 122: Don't Give Away Your Power (Thoughts On Turning 42)

Ep 70: Age is just a number, right?

Ep 21: 10 Thoughts On Turning 40

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I'm Laura Tremaine.

I live in Los Angeles. I'm a reader, a podcaster, a wife, and a mom.

At all times, I have (at least) 10 Things To Tell You. And I know that YOU have 10 Things To Tell.

This place is about connection, with each other and with ourselves. We can only do this by opening our eyes and seeing others and (even harder) by letting ourselves be seen.

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Really think about what you want next. More fun, more hustle, more reading, this prompt can be answered either tangibly or metaphorically.

Naming it now will subconsciously lead you towards that goal, that need, that want.

For things to happen, we

Don’t white knuckle your way through this season so that is enjoyable for everyone else.

What will help YOU enjoy this season?

Of course we have our duties as a partner, a parent, a family member. But let’s not let ourselves drop to the

There is a lot of stress in decisions that are not yet made.

That is what this prompt is about. Perhaps it is time to address that issue that is giving you anxiety and weighing on you.

Take some steps to decide on this before the end of the year! T

Listen - you might not want a uniform! If you find joy in finding a new outfit every day, that’s great.

But this is one of those questions that might really serve you during this busy season - pick one outfit for work events, for holiday part

Happy Thanksgiving, my friends! ❤️ This is my life philosophy every day, but especially through the holiday season.

Thankful for you, always.

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Our time is valuable, friends. And this doesn’t have to be a negative prompt. Sometimes taking space from something opens up room for something else, in a positive way.

Empty kitchen, outfit with pockets, and a bigger bowl than needed - the keys to a happy Thanksgiving.

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Use those five senses for this one. Your space matters, and there is always someone that has to set the tone. Why not you?

Light that candle, put up the tree, DON’T put up the tree, these are all choices you can make now. Think about what you

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